It’s been about four months after I turned 30, and what I’ve come up with shouldn’t be a shock.
30 isn’t all that bad.
From friends that I’ve talked to, they seem to dread the number (I dreaded it a little bit as well, but I played it cool). While I haven’t gotten a straight answer other than “It’s because I’m 30!!!” I think it has to do with that we never thought of reaching this age when we were younger. It’s all about that mindset that we have, or what age we still feel like in our mind. For me, I still feel like I was back in college, I make mention of it here in more detail.
What have I taken away from my experience of 30 so far? It’s an achievement to have made it this far, but there is still so much more to do! I’m not settled with where I’m at in life, but that doesn’t mean I’m unhappy with my situation. At least not now, anyway.
For the first time in a couple of years, I feel like I’m going in the right direction. Things are going well in all facets of life. The only area where I’m having a bit of an issue is settling down with a woman that captivates me, but that’s something I’ve been working on over the last four months.
It started with being more proactive, finally succumbing to the “online dating” situation, but only so far as Tinder will allow. Put this in with the other ways that I meet women, in person, and I’ve dated more now than at any other point in my life. And I’m talking dating, not just randomly “hooking up” with girls. But, there has been that as well. Now I can’t lie that I have been attracted to some of these women on another level than what I usually am, but things just never came out of it. Things happen, but this is an area that I am working on and something that I think needs to happen eventually.
I’m still keeping fit and eating healthy, which is something I’ve done consistently over the last few years and I think has helped me to look and feel young (I gotta admit, I love the compliments I keep hearing from people! Keep’em coming!). But, I have learned to enjoy the tastiness of ice cream, fried foods, candies and cookies more. There is some leeway for moderation, and some people are not meant to go totally “hardcore” like I do. There are other “makes and models” of humans, this works for me and I need to learn that not everyone fits into the same mold.
The last thing I’ve learned as 30 has come is to enjoy your time with both friends and family. Time is limited the older you get. Friends and family of mine are getting married, having babies and starting families of their own. They don’t have the same time to devote to pointless things as they used to, like playing video games or driving around aimlessly in search of adventure. Everyone is already in some sort of adventure. So when you are with either family or friends, enjoy the time you have together.
These are just some things that I’ve noticed about 30, and getting older in general. I know there are some people that are reading this thinking either “no way, you don’t know what you are talking about. 30 is so far away!” or “well, you think that right now, but wait what happens over the next few years. You’ll change your thoughts completely!”
I look forward to both responses, let me know what you think of these observations!
Currently Listening To:
Sinead O’Connor – Nothing Compares 2 U